motherhood, parenting

Mommy of the Moment!

When I created this blog, I wanted to showcase just how awesome mom’s are. Whether a single mom, married mom, a young mom, or an old mom we are required to literally kick ass every single day.   Each week I will pick a mom ( Or you will suggest a mom) for me to share with my readers just how amazing she is and just to give credit where credit is due!!

The mother I am writing about this week is my bestie, and sister from another mister the lovely and talented….

Morgan Brown!

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Morgan is the mother to Michal 5, and Donovan 9. Morgan is the true definition of resilience and determination.  After separating from her husband and beginning life on her own, she began her career in corporate America, but for many single moms corporate America isn’t ever really a good fit, due to schedule demands and generally most places of employment not really giving a damn if your kids have dinner and a kiss goodnight before bedtime.

Realizing that she wanted more for herself and her children  she decided to open her own Childcare facility! Guess what?? In just 8 short months from leaving her job the doors to Cozy Home Cares are open!

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I have personally witnessed her plan every aspect of her daycare from start to finish. The children have daily lesson plans, created by herself and her super genius teacher cousin Fred Jenkins.  The children are always engaged and are even learning sign language, yoga and gardening!!

Cozy Home Cares is located in the middle of the Avondale in Cincinnati,Ohio and is truly giving back to the community. She works with parents and truly wants her home to be a second home for their little ones.  It can be hard to trust daycares with some of the horrors you hear on the news. Cozy Home Cares has cameras that the parents are able to access at anytime and she even offers weekend services for parents who just need a break! So if you are someone you know is in need of childcare do not hesitate to call Morgan!!

Way to go Morgan for being an amazing mother, a boss babe, and an all around great friend. Keep kicking ass and taking names just how you have been! Here’s to Cozy Home Cares becoming everything you have ever wanted!!

 

 

 

advice, motherhood, parenting

Mommy Guilt and Not Spoiling the Child. Help!

“But what will you do??”   “Don’t hold the baby too much! You’re going to spoil him!” “Don’t just let him cry! You will stress him!” “Oh you work? Well who watches the baby?” “Oh that has got to be so hard to be away from him!”

Those kind of questions and statements can really mess with your head, because it begins to turn into Mommy Guilt. Which I had really badly when Aviry was a baby.

I will admit I often care too much about what people think of me. (I’m still growing y’all) What I end up doing at times is I OVER COMPENSATE for everything. I buy toys for Aviry because I feel guilty about not having my life in perfect order before he was born. I allow wiggle room that otherwise wouldn’t be given to him because I felt bad I had to work AND do homework. Little things start to slide. “Go ahead Aviry watch one more Episode. Have another cookie. Sure only 10 more minutes.”

We are entering a phase of  Aviry not completely understanding that everything we provide for him has LITERALLY been through hard work, sweat and at times many, many tears. At 9 I don’t expect him to understand this but I struggle with this situation.  How do you keep your child balanced in today’s world?  I want Aviry to understand hard work and appreciate what he has,  yet as a child I remember what struggling financially felt like and IT SUCKED. I don’t want Aviry to feel that. I learned very early on the importance of hard work and it has helped me tremendously in adult hood. Aviry is such a smart and amazing kid, I don’t want him to misunderstand the importance of hard work, or hinder him because of what he has or doesn’t have.

Parenting is just this constant journey where each day, week or minute can change. One day I feel like Super mom and the next I’m confused as ever. I’m not worried I know that Aviry will be just fine but any pointer or tips are always appreciated!

How do you teach hard work and instill passion into your children? What tips do you have for me as a mom who tends to over compensate?

 

 

Health, parenting

Head Cold Remedy

UUUURRRGGGHHH

I have had the most annoying cold/allergy attack ever!  Luckily I have a secret weapon.

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All you need is…

Tea.

Honey.  ( I typically prefer Local Honey, but this is what I had today)

Lemon.

Dash of Cayenne Peppers.

Hot Water.

It is so soothing and the Cayenne pepper helps to clear your sinuses.  You can get away without the tea. I like to drink it with chamomile tea at night.

Give it a try!

I also bet this would be really tasty iced!

Yum!

motherhood, parenting

A 90’s Summer for an iGeneration kid.

Aviry is in need of an old school summer. By old school I really mean a 90’s kid summer (Because I am not that old!) that’s how I grew up and I want Aviry to be able to experience some carefree old school fun.  In honor of preparing for an old-school summer I am creating a list of some of the fun things we used to do as kids when it was summer vacation and I want my son to be able to experience that as well!

We live in the city in an apartment where there really is not a lot of play space. : ( I grew up with a backyard. And I know that within the next year we will have a home with a backyard for Aviry. He uses the apartment as a play space but I don’t want to stifle his creativity just because I’m not a home owner yet. Aviry prefers the indoors and I want him to see what exciting things can happen outdoors!

I have compiled a list of ways Aviry can have a 90s kid summer! Who needs YouTube when you can play outside all day?

  • Super soakers, water guns, water balloons, and sprinklers no summer is complete without any of those items and we all know why!
  • Hide and go seek in the dark as a parent this game actually terrifies me but as a kid it was the most fun!
  • Riding your bike everywhere you can.
  • I think there should be at least one night he’s able to stay out when the streetlights are on. (With adult supervision of course) #helicoptermom
  • Road trips.
  • So this may not appeal to all the boys out there but I think jumping rope should be a major part of every childs summer. I WAS A BEAST AT DOUBLE DUTCH.
  • Sleepovers!
  • Limited Technology!
  • Parks and playgrounds.
  • I think playing sports is an awesome way to really have a 90s kid summer. It doesn’t have to be on the team but I think there’s nothing like a good old fashion basketball game or a good old fashion baseball game to just keep your child in shape and to learn healthy competition.
  •  Popsicles! Ice cream trucks! Every time an ice cream truck comes by we are there! OK. well maybe not every time but we will be regular customers of the ice cream truck.
  • Maybe it’s the Chicago in me but my summer was definitely spent eating sunflower seeds and pickles so I will probably pass that traditional to him as well.
  • Learn how to fix a popped bike chain.
  • I want him to have a friend over for a few days or him go over a friends house for a few days for so long that they actually  know what it feels like to get tired of someone. But still love them enough to where you’re still best friends.
  • Saturday morning cartoons! Staying up late with me watching movies that I used to like when I was a kid Saturday morning. Although I am not sure if he is going to love the Baby Sitters Club!
  • I want him to find a book that he actually loves and I want him to just spend a day in the house reading because he wants to.  Thank the Lord for DogMan.
  • Rollerblading.
  • Making our own popsicles.
  • Lemonade Stand.
  • Hikes.
  • Old school ice cream parlors.

What are your best memories of Summer Vacation? What fun activity do you think our iKids would love!

I would love to hear and pass them along to my kiddo!

Make it a great one!

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The Most Mom Things I Have to Say.

Hello and Happy Mother’s Day!

I hope your Mother’s Day was relaxing, peaceful, fun or whatever you wanted your Mother’s Day to be. I hope that it was!

In honor of Mother’s Day I wanted to share my list of “momisms”. The most mom things I say on a daily basis or things I do just because I’m a mom. What are your momism’s?

  • I showed up at the parent transition night at my sons school dressed like all of the moms jeans chuck and a T-shirt (this whole time I thought I was the only cool mom!)
  • Walking to the bus stop in pajamas.
  • Don’t use the bathroom outside!
  • Sometimes life isn’t fair kiddo
  • I love you
  • I am so proud of you.
  • Eat all of your food.
  • Don’t pull apart your green beans please.
  • Where are your shoes!?
  • Excuse me what was that?
  • No it’s time to get off of the game now!
  • It’s gonna be ok.
  • Homework isn’t an option.
  • Can you please just smile in this picture??
  • You’re so silly!
  • You’re so smart!
  • I don’t mind if your box fort take over your entire room, but you still need to clean it!
  • Yes it’s bedtime.
  • Didn’t I just say you need to take a shower?
  • Brush your teeth!
  • Here let me show you.
  • No I would rather not eat a booger than smell a fart. Lol.
  • Good morning Honey Bee.
  • Good night my love.
  • Yes school is important.
  • Have a great day!
  • Be your best.
  • Be kind.
  • You’re funny!
  • Shhh don’t tell them how old I am!

This list could go on for days!

I’d love to hear your momisms!

Happy Mother’s Day!!

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28 Reasons I Love Being a Mom!

  1. Aviry has a real world view of adulthood. I’m still learning to adult. (I think we all are) Although this leads to many teachable moments.
  2. I have a lot of energy.
  3. I work harder than I ever would have on my own.
  4. I had to learn how to cook tasty and nutritious meals.
  5. Kids movies are pretty awesome.
  6. Aviry is funny!
  7. When you see your child do something or say something that lets you know you are raising an awesome human being.
  8. I will forever have an ongoing education because I have to help with homework.
  9. I am responsible for someone else’s laundry. So I have to do mine.
  10. The feeling of loving someone so much you can literally feel it in your heart and soul.
  11. Because I’m a millennial mom. When Aviry is up at night not feeling well you can barely tell with the fancy concealers we have on the market.
  12. I love watching him learn.
  13. The joy of watching Aviry persevere.
  14. When your kid does something inappropriate, but, its hilarious.
  15. Watching the dogs and Aviry fight over who will run the pack
  16. I have grown in my ability to smell a rat.
  17. I have so much grit.
  18. I can say I taught someone how to ride a bike.
  19. I am raising an awesome human being.
  20. To see your sense of humor in someone else.
  21. I get the best hugs and kisses.
  22. The smile when he is rewarded.
  23. The smile he has when he accomplishes something.
  24. The moment you realize you weren’t just waisting your breath.
  25. Seeing his imagination soar.
  26. Knowing you made a good looking kid,
  27. I get the best hugs.
  28. I know that this list is infinite.

 

Happy Friday!

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5 Reasons I love Spring Break!

Its that time of the year Spring break is in full season!

Whoo hoo!  SPRING BREAK!!!  ( Takes shot and smashes beer bottle on bar!)

That’s how I always imagined spring break would be if I had ever made it to some wild crazy place where the college kids go. Ahhh well, those dreams died pretty quickly when I became a mom at 20.  I have to admit I have grown to be ok with avoiding the hangover that I am sure accompanies spring break during college.

What I am familiar with is Spring break and Motherhood, and I tell you what. Teachers deserve a RAISE. I know my son has this endless supply of energy and somehow teachers manage to keep a gaggle full of children calm enough to educate them!! That is surely some type of magical power.

We usually go out of town for Spring Break, but our work schedules have become a bit hectic. So I have decided to write 5 reasons why I love spring break.

  1. Being able to watch Aviry play, often when school is in session he darts to Netflix or Youtube and it drives me nuts! What I get to see over Spring Break is he actually loves to play with his toys and has an extremely vivid imagination.
  2. I enjoy the flexibility that comes along with spring break, I enjoy staying up late, and finding fun things to do, but HONEY let me tell you my son eats like a man and is a walking hurricane.  With all this being said I wish that all of my days offered the same flexibility that Spring Break brings to my family.
  3. Not having to catch the school bus when it’s dark outside.
  4. Finding a new and fun place to go in the city.  Although we weren’t  able to go out of town this year I think its important to still find a place to have a blast at.
  5. The day feels longer.

Does that make me crazy? I love when the day seems longer and time moves a little slower.  It’s nice to not be in a rush to have dinner on the table by 6:30.

All I know is thank the Lord for Spring Break because its been nice to slow down a bit.

What do you do to keep your little ones occupied for spring break?

Until next time you wonderful mommies out there!